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This weeks Question:
How do you feel about the censorship of the freedom to read? Do you think the education system needs to be more strict on what children are exposed to in books?
I believe that a challenge on a book is a direct violation of our first amendment rights. I will never understand the need to make decisions for other people. At least when a government wants to ban a book I can understand their motivation, they want to restrict the ideas that their people have access to. Do I agree with this? Not at all, but I can at least make sense of it in a twisted way.
What completely defies reason for me is when a private citizen decides that no one else should be allowed to read something that they themselves find offensive. My first reaction is to act like a child and say something clever like “You are not the Boss of me!” My second reaction is similar, but it is more a grown up kind of anger. The kind that calls us to action when we feel that we are being wronged in a way that challenges us to the core of our beliefs. My core belief is that we are all created equal and should have the right to choose for ourselves and no one else.
I feel like it is almost unfair for me to answer the second question since I homeschool my children. Interestingly though, one of the many instances that led me to the decision to home school was that my child kept bringing home the local newspaper when he was in third or fourth grade. He was supposed to read through the paper and then write about current events. This enraged me. For one thing, the newspaper was much too difficult for him to even read and comprehend. More importantly though, I felt like the content was completely inappropriate for him to be reading. I can not think of a worse thing for a ten year old to ask you than “what is rape?”
That does not mean that I sheltered my child and never talked to him about protecting himself and what parts of his body are private. The key in that is that I talked to him, I used language that he could understand. I do not want my child reading about murder and all the other myriad of criminal activity detailed in the local paper. I also never once thought that because I did not approve of it, it should be banned so that no one else could read it either. I believe in having the right to choose for my self, my children and no one else.
I also want to clarify something. I am far from an expert on the subject but I have been researching the subject of banned books for a while in preparation for this week. There are a few misconceptions I have seen on twitter and a few other places about this week that I would like to clear up. I think that perhaps the title “Banned Books” has given some people the wrong impression.
There are (to the best of my knowledge) no books that are currently banned by the government of the United States. The books that are on the lists on the ALA website refer to books that are challenged in an attempt to ban them from certain libraries or schools. There have been some books that have been successfully taken out of certain places but in the majority of cases they are not. You can read more about this on the ALA website.

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ReplyDeleteThank you for posting that last bit. I think it's important to understand what "Banned Books" really means.
ReplyDeleteI commend you for homeschooling your children. I have HUGE respect for parents who choose to do that. You saw something you didn't like in the public school system, and YOU made a change for your family, that YOU felt was in the better interest of your children. I have a difficult time with parents who put it on the school system to change something just because THEY don't like it.
Hi Ginger,
ReplyDeleteThanks! There are some days I wish I sent them to school so I could read or sleep or just relax until 3 in the afternoon! Mostly though, I am excited to teach them the things that I think are important and do it without compromising our family values.
"YOU'RE NOT MY MOM!"
ReplyDeletelol, seriously, though, I completely agree - it's no one else's business to tell someone they did not give birth to what is okay to read and what isn't.
I remember doing current events when I was in the 4th grade, too! I can't remember exactly, but I think what my parents may have done (and what I think I would do with my children) would be to request the teacher not give the paper to my child at school, and I would give them the pages of the paper that had articles I felt were more age-appropriate (like the human interest section...they usually have a lot of "fluff" stories that don't deal with such controversial issues that a child may not be ready to tackle yet. Or at least, they used to be that way. I haven't read a physical newspaper in ages.
Not to say I think you over-reacted in that being a factor to homeschooling your children - I don't feel that way at all. I have a huge respect for people who homeschool, but I don't think I would ever be able to do it, haha. For one thing, my children would never learn any math. XD
But see, back to the point...you didn't make a huge deal about what you saw as a problem for you and for your family - you removed your children from the situation, and let everyone else continue to participate. You know that it's not the school's responsibility (or the childcare facility's) to teach your child what you think are good values, etc. You recognize that as being your responsibility as a parent.
So good for you, because there are not enough parents like that, I think. :)
Colleen~ Thanks! I actually did try to work with the teacher on a substitute for the newspaper. I asked if I could choose something off of the internet that I felt was appropriate and print it out for him. She refused to compromise. That frustrated me more than anything else. I was already planning to Homeschool but that incident was one that helped me know I was making the right choice.
ReplyDeleteMy son was injured at school too. Another child's knee landed on his hand that was on the gym floor. It started to swell up. The nurse was not there that day so they sent him to the office. He was in pain but he is shy. They asked him if he wanted to call me but he was afraid to stand up. He did not want to get in trouble so he said no. When he got off the bus that day he could not move his thumb at all. I took him to the DR and it turns out his thumb was broken! I could not believe they did not call me or in any way let me know that he was hurt. That was the last straw for me. I pulled him out in the middle of that year.
Yes, it's definitely nice to get the real meaning of "banned books" in lieu of all the discussions we've been seeing this week. Thanks for that!
ReplyDeleteWonderful post on Banned Books-you and I share many views :o]
ReplyDeleteI have the same problem with my sons school! Just Friday, while in Advanced PE (only 10 students!) the coach had my son squat with 200 lbs and no spotter! He injured his back, had to go to the ER and was in pain for most of this week. I let them know they would be picking up the co-pay. I was furious! He's 130 lbs and never should have lifted that much but the coach was off somewhere else. With only 10 students he should be right there at all times! Sorry for the rant but I'm still furious over this. My son was angry with me for making a fuss but I don't care, his safety comes first!
I'm not surprised that the secretary's just ignored it. Public school can be a nightmare, we live in a small town and our school is very strict with lackadaisical (sp?) teachers that have been there forever. They don't want to be there, they are lousy at what they do and they make an issue when a student has a question so most are afraid to ask questions.
I applaud you, as well.
Hey Alexa~ Thanks!
ReplyDeleteKristi~ I am so sorry that happened to your son! I know how furious you must have been! I felt the same way! I let them know that he is not allowed to make medical decisions at home why in the world did they let an 11 year old decide if he needed medical attention while at school!
My son has had some amazing teachers. I am grateful for those teachers. He has also had a few that were not so great. I know that home schooling is not right for every family but I do not regret it for a second!
Obviously our public schools are in desperate need of a change, and I hope to have the choice to home school (or not) when we have finally have children- some states make home schooling near impossible. I am all for parents stepping up and making decisions on how they want their children raised and taught, because that is their right. However, it is not for an individual to speak for all parents or all children. If more kids had parents that cared and were involved then banned books wouldn't be an issue- they'd be a learning tool or there would be a alternative book in place. As for libraries, if parent's are paying attention to what books their children are taking out then it shouldn't matter what books are on the shelves. Too much ignorance and lazy parenting leads to banning books.
ReplyDeleteI loved your post and loved hearing thoughts from a parent. I think you rock!
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